April 30, 2009

#147 - Be Confident

Be confident.
If you don't show confidence in yourself then no one will have confidence in you. It doesn't matter if you don't feel confident inside as long as you appear confident on the outside. Pretty soon your inner confidence will match your outer.


-Love Dad

April 29, 2009

#146 - Teachable Moments

Pay attention and learn from the teachable moments of life.


-Love Dad

April 28, 2009

#145 - Getting Dumped

It won't be the end of the world if you get dumped. It may hurt for a little while, but you'll be better off because it wasn't meant to be.


-Love Dad

April 27, 2009

#144 - Luke 6:35

The final test of a gentleman is his respect for those who can be of no possible service to him.

"I tell you, love your enemies. Help and give without expecting a return. You'll never—I promise—regret it. Live out this God-created identity the way our Father lives toward us, generously and graciously, even when we're at our worst. Our Father is kind; you be kind. "
-Luke 6:35

-Love Dad

April 26, 2009

#143 - Proverbs 11:3

An upright man casts the longest shadow.

"Honesty guides good people; dishonesty destroys treacherous people."
-Proverbs 11:3



-Love Dad

April 25, 2009

#142 - Giving an Receiving Compliments

A gentleman knows that accepting a compliment graciously is just as important as giving a compliment. He knows how to do both.

April 24, 2009

#141 - Accepting a Compliment Do's and Don'ts

Accepting a Compliment Do's and Don'ts

When someone says - "You did a great job at your bar mitzvah."

> You Do

Say, "Thank you, I really worked hard."

> You Don't

Say, "You must not have been listening when I messed up."

> Why

When a person tells you that you have done a good job, it is rude to suggest that the person does not know what he or she is talking about. Even if you know, deep down, that there were moments when you messed up, you don't need to point them out. A simple "Thank you" is all you need to say.

April 23, 2009

#140 - Accepting a Compliment Do's and Don'ts

Accepting a Compliment Do's and Don'ts

When someone says - "I like your haircut."

> You Do

Say, "Thank you."

> You Don't

Say, "My dad made me get it cut. I hate it this short."

> Why

It is rude to disagree with someone who is trying to say something nice about you.

April 22, 2009

#139 - Accepting a Compliment Do's and Don'ts

Accepting a Compliment Do's and Don'ts

When someone says - "That is a great shirt."

> You Do

Say, "Thank you."

> You Don't

Say, "I hate it. I am only wearing it because my Aunt Molly bought it for me and she's here for the weekend."

> Why

By saying you hate the shirt, you have insulted the taste of the person who paid you the compliment

April 21, 2009

#138 - Accepting a Compliment

Accepting a Compliment

Do you know one of the biggest mistakes adults make? No, it's not their haircuts or the music they listen to. Or wearing black socks with shorts and sneakers - although that is pretty hard to forgive.

One of the biggest mistakes most adults make is that they don't know how to accept a simple compliment.

When somebody says something nice, some people don't know that the right thing to do is to say a simple "Thank you." Maybe they think they are acting humble. But they are wrong. They are actually being rude.

April 20, 2009

#137 - Brothers and Daddy

Remember, the girl you're with is somebody's sister or daughter; and he's perfectly capable of kicking your ass.

April 19, 2009

#136 - Give Up Your Chair

Offer your seat to a woman, no matter how old she is.

April 18, 2009

#135 - Bobby Knight Quote

The ability to prepare to win is as important as the will to win.





Bobby Knight
- Former Head Coach, Indiana Basketball

April 17, 2009

#134 - Paul Bryant Quote

In order to have a winner, the team must have a feeling of unity; every player must put the team first - ahead of personal glory.






Paul "Bear" Bryant
-Former Head Coach, Alabama Football

April 16, 2009

#133 - Be Authentic

Be Authentic.
If you're not true to yourself then others will pick up on it and this will affect their response to you.


-Love Dad

April 15, 2009

#132 - Tak a Shower

Girls like boys who shower.

April 14, 2009

#131 - Orange

In Monopoly, buy the orange properties.

April 13, 2009

#130 - How to Throw a Frisbee

How to Throw a Frisbee

Throwing a Frisbee takes some practice and perseverance. There are some techniques that can help you to improve your Frisbee throwing abilities. Once you have the basic idea, get out there and keep trying it.

Steps

1. - Choose a Frisbee you are comfortable with. Feel the weight, size and strength. Cheap Frisbees are exactly that - cheap. They will not last long after falling to the ground a few times and will crack easily. Go for good quality ones that have a thickness and strength to them when you handle them. They will last a lot longer.

2. - Find a suitable place to throw the Frisbee. You need a space in which you can run a fair distance. It needs to be free of both ground and overhanging obstacles, so choosing somewhere such as a sports field is ideal providing there are no games happening at the time. Keep clear of potholes, overhanging trees, posts etc.

3. - Start practicing. Take the rim of the Frisbee in your fingers. Hold it firmly but gently. Curl your wrist slightly back towards your body, as you hold the Frisbee. Your elbow should be pointing up and outwards. You are going to be performing a flicking motion as if your hand is a small spring, so bringing back the hand now is readying you for the forward thrusting motion coming up in a moment.

4. -Point at your target. Usually it is another person, so you will want to aim at the person, preferably at a height that they will be able to reach or jump out and catch the Frisbee.

5. - Move your arm forwards quickly and get ready to flick the Frisbee towards your intended target. Straighten the arm and as your arm is almost fully extended, flick the wrist and release the Frisbee out towards the target. You should release the Frisbee at around hip height, although this may vary depending on the height of your recipient.

6. - Be sure not to draw your arm too far to the right during the throw. If you do this, the Frisbee will go out of direction.

7. - Don't try to put too much power behind the Frisbee release. there is a balancing act in the amount of power that you use to throw a Frisbee. Too much or too little will cause such reactions as the Frisbee hitting the ground, wobbling and flying wildly. Try to throw it smoothly and firmly - not too easy, and not too hard.

8. - Practice. Practice is really the only way to perfect your own technique and to get a true feel for how the Frisbee works on the air currents. Balancing your use of strength with a Frisbee can really only be learned by trying out different ways and learning from what does not work.

Tips

  • Dogs love to catch Frisbees. If you have a canine pal, get a spare dog Frisbee (usually softer and lighter so as to not damage the dog) to share some fun times together. That way, you can avoid having toothmarks in your better quality Frisbee for games with human friends.
  • For left-handed Frisbee throwers, reverse the instructions to use your left arm instead.
  • Try throwing the Frisbee between two cones with a friend
  • Try throwing the Frisbee at a target. For example, you could throw the Frisbee into a box or at a tree
excerpt from: wikihow.com

April 12, 2009

#129 - Giving a Compliment

A gentleman is not afraid to compliment anyone, male or female, when that person has done something well.

April 11, 2009

#128 - Giving a Compliment

A gentleman does not pay a compliment he doesn't mean.

April 10, 2009

#127 - Paying a Compliment Do's and Don'ts

Paying a Compliment Do's and Don'ts

> You Do

Pay a compliment only when you really mean it.

> You Don't
Go around paying compliments to everybody, all the time, so that your compliments don't sound special any more.

> Why
If you like, but don't love, your grandma's apple pie, you don't say it was the best pie you ever tasted. Saying, "Thank you, that was good," is just fine. When your grandma does make your favorite pie, that's the time to tell her how much you like it. The compliment will be much more special if it is genuine - and your grandma will know the difference.

April 09, 2009

#126 - Paying a Compliment Do's and Don'ts

Paying a Compliment Do's and Don'ts

> You Do

Tell someone when you think he or she has done something good.

> You Don't

Worry that other people will think you are trying to get on somebody's good side, or that you are trying to be the "teacher's pet"

> Why

There is nothing wrong with any compliment, as long as you really mean it - even if it's a compliment to your teacher or to your sister. It is always right to say something nice to another person, even if that person is someone you do not know very well.

April 08, 2009

#125 - Paying a Compliment

Paying a Compliment

Everybody likes to hear people saying nice things about him or her. It could be, "Wow. You pitched a great game," or "You did a great job at your bat mitzvah," or "Mom, your new haircut looks great," or "Grandpa, you make the best chocolate cakes in the world."

It doesn't cost anything to pay somebody a compliment. But a genuine compliment is one of the best gifts you can give. It doesn't get old or wear out, and it will make somebody happy - somebody who may remember it forever.

April 07, 2009

#124 - Be Patient

Be Patient.
Sometimes what you want doesn't just drop in your lap and you'll have to wait. Some things come in their own sweet time and no amount of longing will make them come any sooner.

-Love Dad

April 06, 2009

#123 - Elgin Baylor Quote

"Coaching is easy.
Winning is the hard part."

Elgin Baylor
- Former Coach, New Orleans Jazz

April 05, 2009

#122 - Fred Shero Quote

"Success is not the result of spontaneous combustion. You must set yourself on fire."

Fred Shero
- Former Coach, Philadelphia Flyers

April 04, 2009

#121 - Friendship in Marriage

Every good marriage must be a friendship between two people who are willing to sacrifice for the other person.

April 03, 2009

#120 - Make a Difference

If your absence doesn't make any difference, your presence won't either.


-Love Dad

April 02, 2009

#119 - Friendship

How rare and wonderful is that flash of a moment when we realize we have discovered a friend.

-Love Dad

April 01, 2009

#118 - Borrowing

A gentleman never simply assumes that it is OK for him to use something that belongs to someone else. He always asks permission.
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